ABOUT ME

Hi, I’m Rachel. I help burnt-out parents of spirited, sensitive, ADHD kids transform power struggles into partnership. I am trained as a Clinical Psychotherapist (MSW) and Communications Designer. My expertise blends effective communication, boundary-setting, inner healing, and mindset reframing. But most importantly, I’ve walked this road myself.

I see your exhaustion. I know the chaos. And I found the way out.

But before I show you the way, let me tell you my story.

MY STORY

From 2010 to 2019, I was a child & family therapist, but I felt like a fraud—guiding parents by day while drowning in my own parenting struggles at home. My child resisted everything—transitions, routines, even getting in the car. Brushing teeth? A war zone. School drop-off? A nightmare.

We had tried every resource—doctors, parenting books, OT, PT, neurofeedback, therapy, sports. I wasted thousands of dollars on therapies that didn’t work. I fought insurance companies for treatments my child refused. Nothing worked. Nothing stuck. All the local experts failed us. I was exhausted, ashamed, and at my breaking point. In my darkest moments, I felt so helpless that I even found myself questioning if I should send my child away.

Then, during the pandemic, it got even worse. My child hit a wall—depressed, anxious, refusing school. That was what it took for something to shift. I stopped looking outward and started looking inward.

I was done feeling powerless. I decided I was going to crack the code on parenting my spirited, sensitive, neurodivergent child. So I threw out all the outdated, ineffective advice and built something new.

I dove deep—not just into parenting books, but into real psychology, hard neuroscience, and frameworks designed for neurodivergent kids. I finally realized that traditional parenting advice just isn’t built for kids like mine. So I explored the science of connecting, the nervous system, the unique needs of spirited, sensitive, and neurodivergent children. I didn’t just read about these methods—I lived them, tested them, and refined them. And my child went from daily meltdowns to thriving, from failing grades to academic success.

The result? I created THE IREZJOY METHOD.

I’m not just a parent coach—I’m a parent who’s been there. And I help parents do what I once thought was impossible: move from power struggles to a deep, lasting partnership with their children.

Join me on the path to peace.

THE IREZONATE JOY MISSION STATEMENT

I empower parents of spirited and sensitive ADHD kids to transform power struggles into peaceful partnerships. I’ve been in the trenches.

Through THE IREZJOY METHOD, I guide parents on a proven path to reclaim joy, rediscover connection, and unlock their child’s potential.

This isn’t a quick fix—it’s a revolution in parenting. Our mission is to move families from resistance to resonance, creating legacies of empowered parents and thriving kids.

Let’s go!

FROM POWER STRUGGLES TO PARTNERSHIP

Through THE IREZJOY METHOD,

parents go from surviving daily conflicts to thriving in true partnership with their children.

We turn chaos into calm, frustration into connection, and challenges into opportunities for growth.

This isn’t just a shift in parenting— it’s a shift in your family’s future.

EMOTIONAL REGULATION

If you’re looking for a way to help your child process their emotions calmly and confidently—without shutting down or lashing out—you’re in the right place.

Manage Sibling Conflicts

With over 20 years of experience as a Parent Success Coach, child and family therapist, and clinical school social worker, I’ll share actionable strategies to help you create a calmer, more connected family and manage sibling conflicts.

Handle Tough Moments

It’s gut-wrenching when your child says, “I hate myself,” “I’m stupid,” or even “I hate you.” I’m here to guide you through how to respond with empathy and calm to foster emotional growth and resilience.

IMPROVE COMMUNICATION

Strong Relationships

If you’re longing for a deeper connection where your child feels respected and safe to talk to you, you’re in the right place.

Tired of the Backtalk?

Learn how to break the cycle and build a stronger connection instead.

Improve Communication

If you want to truly understand your child’s behavior and address the root cause—so you’re not just reacting to symptoms, but gaining insight into the real issues—you’re in the right place.

Reducing Nagging

Wondering how to stop repeating yourself and set clear expectations that your child will actually follow through with? I’ll show you how.

BUILDING

SELF-WORTH

As parents, we want our kids to feel confident and embrace their unique qualities. But it’s not always easy to help them overcome negative thoughts. I’ll guide you in nurturing your child’s self-worth, helping them develop a healthier self-image and stronger confidence, and setting them up for a resilient and successful future.

End the Hygiene Struggles

Hygiene battles don’t have to be the norm! If you’re tired of the constant nagging or yelling to get your child to bathe or shower more often, and you wish they’d make better choices for their well-being, then this program is for you.

BOOK A FREE 45-MIN CONSULT

Take the First Step Today

You don’t have to navigate this alone. I’m here to help you make the changes you’ve been desperate for. Click the button below to schedule your discovery call and begin your journey toward a more emotionally regulated and connected family.

Contact us

[email protected]