THE IREZJOY METHOD for Parenting Bold, Spirited, & ADHD Kids

A 3-Month Path to Calm, Connection, & Thriving Family Life

THE IREZJOY METHOD is an exclusive program designed specifically for parents who are committed to creating a true partnership with their bold, spirited, and ADHD child, so their child can reach their full potential. This program will not only teach you practical tools for navigating meltdowns and defusing power struggles. It will also teach you how to heal the wounds inside yourself that throb each time you clash with your child. It will teach you how to pivot from criticism and conflict into collaboration and connection.

As a parent of a bold, spirited, and ADHD child, you will have the most significant impact on your child’s thriving and success—not the teachers, therapists, or professionals. It’s a wonderful and terrifying responsibility. And today, you’re facing an opportunity to transform the influence you have on your child’s wellbeing. What you choose to do with this opportunity will have a real and concrete impact on your family, and on your child’s future.

That might sound scary—but it’s also a statement full of hope. Be real with me for a minute. Imagine yourself five years in the future. Picture your daily life with your child—getting ready for school, managing homework, navigating playtime, meals, bedtime. Will you still be longing for peace in your home, frustrated by behaviors you can’t understand or control? Will you still be questioning whether you’re a good parent for your child? Will you be wishing you had done something different?

Or are you ready for real change?

THE IREZJOY METHOD includes all the science, strategies, feedback, and support you need to transform your relationship with your bold, spirited, ADHD child.

Within this program, you will have access to:

THE IREZJOY METHOD Blueprint

A proven step-by-step system to tackle daily challenges so that your family can replace conflict with cooperation and connection.

Emotionally Intelligent Parenting Toolkit

Tools to master emotional regulation for yourself and teach it to your child so that you can reduce power struggles and bring peace to your home.

Weekly Group Coaching Calls

Twelve live group coaching sessions tailored to your parenting struggles so that you can get real-time solutions and feel supported every step of the way.

Step-by-Step Parenting Plan

An 8-module framework covering everything from managing ADHD behaviors and understanding what happens in the brain and body to building deep, meaningful parent-child connections, so that you can parent with clarity, confidence, and ease.

Supportive Community

Exclusive access to a members-only online community where you can interact with like-minded parents who are on the same journey with their child, to celebrate wins and share stories.

GOOD FIT

This program is FOR you if…

  • You’re a parent of a strong-willed, sensitive, or ADHD kid (ages 8-13) and are ready to move from exhaustion & frustration to confidence & connection.

  • You’re committed to learning, growing, and applying a fresh approach to parenting—because you know change starts with YOU. You’re committed to personal growth so you can be all your children need you to be.

  • You’ve tried traditional discipline, rewards, or even therapy—but you’re still struggling with meltdowns, defiance, and power struggles… and you’re ready for a real, lasting transformation.

  • You’re looking for research-backed, proven parenting strategies that work for kids with BIG emotions—so you can stop walking on eggshells and start enjoying your family again.

  • You want a supportive community of like-minded parents who truly understand what it’s like to raise an intense child—and who are committed to lifting each other up.

  • You believe in breaking generational cycles and creating a home where your child feels safe, seen, and supported—while still holding firm boundaries.

  • You are tired of losing your cool, doubting yourself, feeling overwhelmed, and struggling to regulate your children, emotionally or behaviorally. You want to know that you are giving your kids what they need to be resilient, fulfilled, and able to form meaningful relationships.

NOT SO GOOD FIT

This program is NOT for you if…

  • You just want to vent frustrations without being open to new tools, reflection, or coaching. You’re looking for a quick-fix or a one-size-fits-all solution without committing to long-term change.

  • You have untreated depression, anxiety, PTSD, substance use, or another mental health disorder that’s impacting your life.*

  • You don’t care what the science has to say; the way you were raised was good enough for you, so it’ll be good enough for your kids.

  • You see your child’s big emotions & behaviors as defiance rather than a sign of deeper struggles.

  • You’re looking for medical or medication advice (this is NOT the place for that—our focus is on emotional connection, communication, and behavior transformation).

  • You don’t need any help with parenting. You feel good about strict rules, harsh punishments, and high expectations. Focusing too much on emotional connection makes people weak, and your goal is to raise kids who are tough and independent.

  • You’re not willing to invest time & energy into a new way of parenting that could transform your child’s future.

*Mental health disorders affect 1 in 4 adults; there is no shame in struggling. If you’re experiencing mental health symptoms that are disrupting your life, please seek treatment, and then revisit THE IREZJOY METHOD when you’re feeling better. THE IREZJOY METHOD can still be a great fit for your family.

THE JOURNEY

The Neuroscience of Sensitive Children

Learn to understand your intense child by exploring the biopsychosocial science behind high sensitivity. You’ll learn why some children flood easily, and how to use knowledge to unravel the reasons behind your child’s behaviors.

Inner Child Work

We all bring our own histories to the task of parenting. I’ll help you become aware of childhood wounds, forgive yourself, rewire your thoughts, and connect with your own inner child when you’re feeling dysregulated during intense parenting moments. 

Practicing the Pause Button in Conflict

It starts with you. You’ll learn how to self-regulate from the inside out, so that you can model self-regulation for your child in an accessible way that will help to soothe their nervous systems.

Rejecting a Critical Parenting Style

When parenting has felt like a battle for so long, it’s easy to get stuck in a negative narrative. You’ll learn to reframe the story you offer your child about themselves and your relationship, so you can transmit positive meaning instead of negativity.

Expressing Experiential Praise

Recognize your child’s tremendous strengths, even if those strengths have been buried in dysregulation. Learn to use praise to shape your child’s sense of self, behavior, and experience of the world.

Consistency is Key

Implement and repeat what you’ve learned about this new approach to parenting. Celebrate your child’s spirit, and practice the spirit of kaizen in parenting.

Giving Yourself a Break

Co-parenting can be so much more than just sharing responsibilities; you’ll practice taking turns, praising one another, and validating that you are each good enough parents. In addition, you’ll learn how to offer repairs to your child when you revert to old ways of parenting them.

Bonus: Troubleshooting FAQs

I’ll tackle common problems families encounter when applying this new approach, and provide you with everything you’ll need to succeed in raising your intense child.

WHAT’S IN IT FOR ME?

Change the course of your child’s life with a transformative approach to parenting that affirms their strengths and supports them without breaking their spirit

Reduce conflict, power struggles, and emotional outbursts, and create a calmer home for your entire family

Gain confidence that your child can succeed socially and academically now, and thrive in their future

Save all the time and money you’ve been spending therapy and other types of treatment by streamlining the process into a three-month path to positive change

Begin to truly enjoy your relationship with your child as you build a collaborative, strengths-based partnership together

Receive tailored, personal support every step of the way from an expert who knows what it’s like to be in your shoes

Receive tailored, personal support every step of the way from an expert who knows what it’s like to be in your shoes

Parent-to-Parent Teamwork Plan Workshop

Create a strong, united front with your co-parent for seamless parenting teamwork

Troubleshooting Guide

Gain practical solutions for sibling rivalry, meltdowns, bedtime struggles, and more

12-Month Access to Materials (Limited Time Only)

Includes program updates and new tools for continuous progress

Exclusive VIP Parent Community

Join our private village of supportive parents sharing challenges, wins, and breakthroughs

If you pay in full, you’ll receive a personalized 45-minute 1:1 coaching session for tailored guidance and support.

Here’s my guarantee: Show up for at least 80% of calls and engage full in the program. If you don’t see significant results within 3 months, I’ll extend your access for one more month at no charge!

FAQ

I’ve tried everything with my strong-willed child, why would this be any different?

That’s a great question! When you say you’ve ‘tried everything,’ what kinds of approaches have you used before? I ask because most parents who come to me feel the same way at first—until they realize that traditional parenting strategies actually fuel power struggles with strong-willed kids. What we do here is different because it helps you communicate in a way that your child naturally responds to, without yelling or constant battles. Would you be open to learning how that works? I’d love to hear from you. Reach me here.

Will this work for MY child? He’s extra intense.

I hear you—every child is unique, and you’re probably wondering if this will fit your situation. Let me ask you this: Have you ever noticed that the more you try to correct or manage your child’s behavior, the worse it gets? That’s because strong-willed kids don’t respond to typical discipline. What we do here is shift the dynamic so they actually want to cooperate—not out of fear, but from trust and connection. If I showed you a way to do that, would you want to explore it? You can contact me here.

I don’t have time for a full-on program. How much time does this take?

That totally makes sense. Parents are busy, and the last thing you need is something that adds more stress. Let me ask you: If you had just 5-10 minutes a day to shift the way your child responds to you—without adding extra work—would that be worth it? What most parents find is that by making small, strategic changes, they actually get MORE time back because the daily battles fade away. Does that sound like something you’d want? If so, reach out.

This is a big investment. Will I get my money’s worth from this program?

Traditional child and family therapy can cost you over $8000 in one year and $24,000 in three years—often without real results. Trust me, I’ve been down that road; it’s expensive, demoralizing, and frustrating. With THE IREZJOY METHOD, you’ll see meaningful change in just THREE MONTHS, at far less than the cost of traditional therapy. You’ll say goodbye to emotional rollercoasters and hello to a peaceful, harmonious home—all while saving your time, sanity, and resources. I know it feels like a huge risk to invest in something off the beaten path, but that investment is a promise to yourself that you are all in—and when we go all in, we get the most out of an experience. 

What if my partner isn’t on board?

That’s super common, and I get why that would be a concern. Let me ask you this: Have you ever noticed that when YOU make a shift, it tends to influence the people around you, even if they’re resistant at first? The cool thing is, in this approach, you don’t have to ‘convince’ your partner. When they start seeing the changes in your child’s behavior, they usually come around on their own. Would you like some guidance on how to make that happen without conflict? Reach out; let’s talk.

What results can I expect?

That’s an important question, and I’d love to hear what ‘results’ mean to you—less yelling? A more emotionally regulated home? More connection with your child? Every family starts at a different place, but most parents I work with notice a major shift within a few weeks—sometimes even days—once they start applying the right strategies. If I could show you a way to create that shift in your home, would that be valuable for you? Contact me.

Can you see people who don't live in Portland, Oregon?

Great question! Are you wondering if you can still get the same level of support even if we’re not in the same city? I totally get that concern. The great news is, yes! Since this is parent coaching, not therapy, I can work with parents anywhere—no matter where you live. Coaching is all about giving you the tools, strategies, and support to create a calmer home and stronger connection with your child. This is completely separate from my therapy practice, so there are no location restrictions. Would it be helpful if I shared more about how coaching works? If so, schedule a call here.

EXCLUSIVE OFFER

LIMITED-TIME ONLY: DISCOUNTED INVESTMENT PRICED AT 50% OFF

I help burnt-out parents of strong-willed kids break free from the chaos, ease the frustration, and bring peace back into their home. Imagine a future where joy, connection, and calm become your reality!

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